So, it happened that way that you have parted with your girlfriend. You are sad, your heart aches and all you want is to have her back in your life. So, if you are willing to get your ex girlfriend back, you need to be ready for a long and not easy period in your life. It will require much effort and patience from you to get her back to you. Are you ready for that?
You need to know that women are driven by their feelings and emotions, and if she decided to quit the relationship, then her emotional needs where not met the way she expected this from you. So, to get her back, you need to show her you have changed and that you are able to provide her the emotional support she wants to receive from her man.
The first step you should do is contacting your ex girlfriend. As soon as you find it appropriate, contact her. Don’t hesitate, since if you wait for too long, you can see a line of men at her door. If you are thinking of the ways to contact her you can choose from text messaging, e-mailing, sending a card or calling her.
Every time you have a chance to talk to your ex, make sure you listen to her attentively. Thus you kill the two birds with one stone: you show her you respect her and acknowledge what she is telling you and this is vey important since women like to be heard and this will make her feel wanted and needed. The second thing is you look for the non-verbal signs she is giving you ‘in between the lines’.
Avoid lying or cheating on your ex girlfriend, this will only make the things worse when the truth is revealed. Also don’t play games with her and only give subtle signs of your intentions to rebound. Don’t put all your cards on the table at once. Keep her interest alive. Make sure you are attentive, a little of flirt will only help. Women are flattered to realize they are desired.
Make sure you stay in shape no matter will you reconcile or not. If you are not in the best shape, take this time and work on your body. Nothing will catch her attention better than your new sexy and fit look.
No matter what changes you need to undertake in your life to get your ex girlfriend back, make sure you would be able to sustain them during your new relationship. If not, then you will get back to what you have started with and you don’t want that. That is why before starting the whole ‘strategy’, ensure that you would be able to keep with it, if not, then the further heartbreak is inevitable. Analyze carefully what you can and cannot fulfill and good luck in your trial!